Greater Marriage

In today’s episode, we explore the complexities of purity culture and how it can impact your sex life—both before and after marriage.

We discuss the core of purity culture—its emphasis on abstinence and sexual purity until marriage—highlighting how it often leaves us with feelings of shame, guilt, and confusion about healthy sexual desires. From the “True Love Waits” movement to the fear-based tactics that reinforce a narrow view of sex, we break down the unintended consequences this can have on intimacy, communication, and self-worth.

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00:00 The Pursuit of Intimacy: A New Perspective on Sex

02:55 The Impact of Purity Culture on Relationships

06:11 True Love Waits: The Promise and Pitfalls

08:55 Shame and Guilt: The Hidden Costs of Purity Culture

12:09 Communication: The Key to Healthy Intimacy

14:49 The Fear Factor: Risks and Consequences of Sexual Sin

18:06 The Need for Comprehensive Sex Education

20:53 Finding Freedom in God's Design for Sex

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@dustynmiller  @heathermiller  @greatermarriage

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Dustyn and Heather Miller are the voices behind the Greater Marriage Podcast. With a combined 25+ years of ministry experience, they have dedicated their lives to serving others and strengthening marriages.

Dustyn, a Bible school graduate, jumped into full-time ministry immediately after completing his studies. His heart for people and commitment to God's calling have driven him to serve in various leadership capacities over the years. Heather, after earning her degree in business, also entered full-time ministry, where she and Dustyn worked side-by-side in youth and children’s ministries for more than a decade. Today, they lead a thriving Young Marrieds ministry at their local church, where they are passionate about helping couples build strong, lasting relationships.

Married for 12 years and the parents of three children, Dustyn and Heather's marriage is a testament to the power of God's grace. Heather's journey is also marked by resilience—having been widowed before marrying Dustyn, she brings a unique perspective on healing, restoration, and the redemptive power of God. Their greatest joy is seeing marriages restored, strengthened, and thriving. 

Through their podcast, they offer practical advice, biblical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement to couples at every stage of marriage. They believe that every marriage can be greater, no matter the challenges, and they are on a mission to inspire couples to pursue God's best for their relationships.

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Keywords: marriage, communication, red flags, warning signs, counseling, boundaries, childhood experiences, communication, marriage, emotional experiences, marriage, relationships, shared interests, individuality, intimacy, communication, compatibility, introversion, extroversion, personal growth